August 4, 2020

It’s a Matter of Perspective.


1. Everything is a matter of choices, decisions and outcomes that follow the actions and inactions. 
2. If you think you are right, You are right. That does not mean we have to agree as we all want different things at different times. 
3. If I think I am right, I am right too.  That does not mean we have to agree as we all want different things at different times. 
4. The best thing is for you to get what you want when you want that fits your personal desires so that you get to do what you want & at the same time do not be a burden to others.
5. All the best & Take Care everyone.

32 comments:

Rangjini said...

Yes indeed. It all depends not only on what you look at it also depends on where look FROM. It may look good for me but it doesn't mean it will look for you. When we are not on the same page, that's when a problem arises. It will take a whole lot of our energy to explain, make it understand, and resolve it. Just what is needed for us and move-on.

Rangjini

fadelah said...

Perspective atau perspektif. Ia bergantung kepada apa yang mereka fikirkan, apa yang mereka rasakan. Jika buruk yang mereka rasakan, maka buruk la ia. Jika baik yang mereka fikirkan, maka baik la ia. Kita tidak mampu untuk mengubah perspektif mereka terhadap kita.


-Fadelah-

Khairul said...

Saya setuju apa yang Mr Ernie nyatakan dalam blog ini..

Apa yang kita lakukan adalah hak kita untuk melakukan perkara tersebut. Pilihan di tangan kita untuk melakukan sesuatu perkara dengan jayanya.

Akhir kata, Semoga apa yang kita lakukan sentiasa dalam rahmat Tuhan.

Mandy Siow said...

Agreed on this. There is no right and wrong on the decision made and the thinking of mindsets. When changed the quality of thinking, it changed the quality of life.

vivianfoong1998@gmail.com said...

Yes, everyone have their own decisions and perspective.

Sometimes live in the expectations environment of others, try to do something to make yourself happy and healthy. The most important is to be responsible for your decisions.

Thank you Mr. Ernie for your sharing. I have learnt a lot from you.

Maria said...

Totally agreed Sifu..if you are doing in terms of money..money will come to you but ifyou are doing for passion and love..passion and love will come to you

Dayang Almahera Ishak said...

Indeed, Mr Ernie. Everyone have their own perspectives, their own opinions and their own views. There is no right and wrong as everyone's perspection is different.

Anonymous said...

Thanks for the words Mr. Ernie..

The choices are abstract. So does the impact. The impact of the choices. But, it is still depends on the individual neither willing to accept nor not. Perceptions and perspectives are always different at all times. The right perceptions and perspectives are matter.

Said by:
Richard Rut

Anonymous said...

Yes Mr Ernie,

Everyone has their own perspective, they believe what they want to believe.
We cannot please everybody, we also cannot force anyone. Just be yourself and be matured.

Learn how to agree to disagree and respect each other.

-Izzati Anuar-

Meenu said...

Indeed, Mr. Ernie. There is no wrong or right in making decision according to their perception. As everyone Is having different perception, let’s respect each other’s perception and accept it wholeheartedly.

-meenu-

Ginny said...

Totally agreed.

Different people wants different things in their life, no right no wrong. As long as be responsible on the decision that made and deal with the consequences.

Noorfa said...

People have their own rights to "agree to disagree" or "disagree to agree". All about our own choice. We make a decision based on what we think is right and bear should with the consequences. There is a saying that there is no right and wrong when we make a decision. We just need to go through it.

Sivanisswary Karuppannan said...

Thank You for the words Mr.Ernie,
As we see everything from our perspective, things may seem to be favourable for us.We need to consider and understand that everybody's path will not be the same.Therefore,understanding others and accepting everyone's perspective is crucial to function.
-Sivanisswary Karuppannan-

Joseph said...

Agreed sir, one of the lesson that I learnt is not about what decision that you make now, is about what's going to happen after the decision. It does matter! So wish and respect for one's decision 👍🏻


Thanks!

Ivy Loh said...

We always have the choice. It is just depend what you want. If you do not know what you want, ask back yourself why do you started.

rosmalia said...


Thank for sharing Mr. Ernie,

Everyone has their own view and there is nothing that draws a strict line that this is right and this is wrong. What seems to be right to someone, may be wrong for another in their perspective, but if there were no perspective and everyone is of the same opinion, there will be no scope for progress or growth. So it is good to have a different view and opinion for company improvement.

~rosmalia~

Peggie Woo said...

Agreed with Mr. Ernie about the matter of perspective.

Everyone always have their own reasons of perspective. Their reason of perspective always change or turn according to their emotions, environments or the situations that they are facing.

It's remind me one thing. Do you remember why you started? Is this a clear decision that fits your desire?

That's all my thoughts about the matter of perspective. Thank you.

#peggiewoo

Anonymous said...

Every individual will have their own desires and dreams to chase in their life. We live our own life and we need to make sure we live a happy life. Do the right decision, and accept whatever consequences come after the decision.

--Alan--

Nivashini.S said...

Hi Mr. Ernie.

Agreed on the above sharing.

Life is all about perspective. Everything we hear is an opinion, not a fact. Everything we see is perspective, not the truth.

If you change the way you look at things, the things you look at will change !

That is LIFE :)

Thank you and have a great journey ahead.

-Nivashini-

JL Lai said...

Indeed! Knowing what we want is important and that will make our life meaningful.

With that, you no longer need to leave under anyone expectation because you know exactly what you want or whether you are doing the right things, thanks!

Thinessha Balan said...

Thank you for the sharing Mr. Ernie.

We need to admit that each person will see the world in a different way and we are all limited by our own perspective. Normally people see what they wanted to see and it has nothing to do with their attitude, belief and value.

We should respect each other’s point of views and never limit ourselves to just listen from one side of the story.

Thank you for the wonderful 4 years and I wish all the best to PORTMAN.

-Thinessha Balan-

Anonymous said...

Indeed Mr. Ernie

Everyone has their own choice and perspective, nothing is right and wrong.
If we are able to accept each other’s perspectives, it allows to appreciate their true value.

Sometimes the only reason for us to be somewhere else is to see things from a different perspective.

Thank you and all the best.

-Malathy Muniandy-

Pohyi Choong said...

Do not always think that what people say is always correct. There is no right or wrong in anything. You just need to ask yourself, what do you want, are you happy with what you want? Are you satisfy what you have now?

Whatever is happening now is just one of the chapters in our life. Do what you think is right, not what other thinks is right.

platinumfreeriding_associate said...

Just focus on whatever we wants, obstacles will become small and easier...

Anonymous said...

Totally agreed with Mr. Ernie.

Respect each other does not mean we have to agree with other people opinion. Ready to hear and try to understand other perspectives without feeling pressured to agree on that matters are enough to do as a human being.

-Aina Jamal-

Luna Yap said...

As long the decision made is what you want, go for it. Because everyone perspective is different. But make sure the decision you have made is what you want not other people desire.

Pragash Ari Ragavan said...

An organization is defined by its continuity of existence, vision and mission. The former marks the sustainability in business while the latter defines the purpose and direction of an organization.

It is true that perspectives shall never be the same as individuals differ from one another. Many factors contribute towards the difference in the perspective of individuals and this results in differing decisions. Its common among all organizations.

All decisions nevertheless shall give importance to the suitability of the decisions. Suitability in organizational perspective is assessed in terms of whether an alternative addresses the key issues relating to the strategic position of the company. This defines whether the decision best the organizational objectives or not. On the other hand, suitability of a decision is assessed on the whether a decision fits in the individual long run objectives. Differences will continue to appear, no doubt but the journey continues and moving on towards the goals remains fundamental.

Sammi said...

Yes Mr. Ernie, everyone is having different perspective. For me, if any situation happened it should be clarify with the person and not to stressing thinking alone with unnecessary or choose to ignore.

- Sammi -

Cheryl said...

There is nothing right or wrong for any decision to be made.

It's matter of perspective and what we want in our life.



Villain can be right on his way of thinking too.

Thanks for sharing and All the best to everyone.

Andrew Yau said...

Absolutely sir. The word of "Perspective" gave me a lot of wisdom in this two years. Well, we couldn't control and change what others' thoughts.

Whoever that align to us, then come along. Likewise. We are running short of time to achieve what we want. Nonsense & Complaints are not welcomed.

Stay together and work with each other if the values are aligned. We are here to build a legacy that is sustainable. Not short term game.

Sincerely,
Andrew Yau

Vicky Yew said...

Dear Mr. Ernie,

Agree with you. Everyone will have different thinking at different moment. Always focus on the right target and make it happen.

Thank you for taking care us.

Gym Chan said...

If world can truly understand about perspective, the world will not have arguments.

But sad to say, if you can understand alone it's not enough, because others might not. If others do, the rest might not.

So, just take care of your own and do not do anything bad for any reason, and let your problems become someone else burden.

Nothing cannot be solve, we just need to learn how to accept it, okay with it, and move forward!

Sharing my piece of thoughts here~
Gym Chan