October 6, 2008

Life’s a BITCH!... if we let it be

Have you ever asked someone what they had for lunch and they, roll their eyes and say something like, “I had Chicken Rice AGAIN.” And when you say to them if they don’t like it, why not have something else, they reply, “I don’t have a choice.” This is a load of rubbish – and believe me I’ve heard plenty of idiots speak in my lifetime.

Of course you have a choice!

You can decide to wake up a little earlier and make yourself a sandwich for one – or look for other places to try out. You can decide to make life simple, or choose to bitch about every single thing that comes your way. If things are not going well for you, grow a backbone and stop slithering about in self-pity. Pick yourself up and move forward.

Bad break in love? Stop all the crying and wallowing. Tell yourself you’re going to get really successful and win this person back – provided they’re worth the work you’ll be putting in. Otherwise, get successful for yourself. After all, success is the best revenge.

If your job is bringing you down, look for something else that you really want to do. Yes, it’s really that simple. Get out of your comfort zone. Change for the better is never easy – you need to challenge yourself and go through some rough patches in order for you to really appreciate all the good that is in your life. Once that happens, you’ll bitch less and be a nicer person to yourself and those around you.

11 comments:

Anonymous said...

The word "no choice" are used widely and indirectly it becomes a habit. Try to change that and you'll realize that life is so much fun =)

Anonymous said...

This is so true. I used to be the I-had-no-choice kinda person. Then I finally woke up. We always have a choice. Its whether were up to taking up the choice or not =) Thanks for reminding us all the time.

Anonymous said...

True. Life's a BITCH... when you don't have what you want (Money... Gorgeous and genius wife/husband... Nice house... nice car... etc) AND you're being bitchy about it.

If you have the Desire, making the right Choices, Belief and taking Actions... eventually, life is Not a bitch. Not only that, you must also have PATIENCE. Most Great Things won't happen overnight.

For those who whine about having Chicken Rice most of the days or eating at the same place everyday, wake up and be thankful that you still are able to choose, chicken rice or tumeric fried chicken rice. Some people have to choose whether to eat or to put petrol.

Life's a bitch if you're bitchy. Stop whining and start living.

Let's go eat chicken rice!

Chetz Yusof
ChetzTV.com - My Love, Money & Legacy Blog

Anonymous said...

I used to say "i have no choice" as an excuses in few years back. But now i have stop saying that is because i realize we always have a choice.

Anonymous said...

Very inspiring! Don't just know the problem, do something about it!

Anonymous said...

Don't complaint, Don't blame, Don't justify!

remember this and we are in good shape!

Anonymous said...

i guess we are used to listen to elder people mentioning "no choice" when we growing up. that's the reason, these words stucked in our mind and become our daily vocabulary.

don't complain on what we have because a lot of people in the world desire to have what we have now...

always appreciate and if think of "no choice" please think of of the need ones.

Anonymous said...

By making a statement "I got no choice".. we already made a choice...

Jeremy Lee said...

A life is for living.
It is not for bitching.
If you want to Bitch, don't live.

Anonymous said...

"i had no choice" is really a crappy statement. here is no indication whether you had done something about it or you just let it be. it is just a crappy put together words.

Darren S. said...

I may a little late on a comment since I only become a member in 2009. The subject matter propels me to say somthing.
When we stay in our little "silo" and complain about everything then we deserved to have the lit close over us...Please try new things and always look out for adventures and varieties.
" When we say we have learned all tht needs to be learned and taste all that needs to be tasted then its time for us to call the undertaker coz we wiil be dead in the morning"....Guru Darren S.