June 29, 2010

Letting Go ......


In life just as in business – people will come into our lives and businesses with lots of promises, hope and commitment when everything is fine and before you know it, it is all broken with empty promises. We can easily get angry, frustrated or even wanting to get even. Over my many years of getting frustrated and disappointed with human beings if I can call them that, I found a better solution to it all. Just let it go ..... it will be OK. No two persons/ parties will ever agree on everything. There MUST be a protagonist and antagonist in everything that we say and do. We will always have new blood and new energy in our lives. Only those that persevere and have learnt to let go of the bad will enjoy their life journey. And I can honestly say I am enjoying my life so much by just letting go of the bad and welcoming the good always.

25 comments:

joshSAN said...

Yup, we shouldn't be slave of the bad memories/incidents but live in the freedom of the hope that we have of the future.

eb said...

“Change is never easy, you fight to hold on, and you fight to let go.” – The Wonder Years

Letting go...

1. let us sleep well at night
2. allow us to move on in life
3. means no holding grudge towards one another
4. is to forgive and to forget!
5. makes our heartbeat beating at normal rate
6. means there will be another door open for us

Shahrill said...

“Some of us think holding on makes us strong, but sometimes it is letting go.” — Herman Hesse

Sometimes you have to let go to see if there was anything worth holding on to

Charm6781_Yatie said...

Let go and we can be a Bigger person with the Bigger heart and mind.

LILIAN said...

Only by inspiring our mind " To Let Go" at the right time, then only we can be optimistic moving forward.

AA said...

Great sharing and totally agree with that.we will never know what are the good things coming if we cannot let go the old things.what ever it is, we must go back to our fundamental.

MS said...

Letting Go - Not a easy things to do... but we will need to learn on letting go certain things in our life. Not letting go everything, but the things that stop you for moving forward or hold you for long time...

MY said...

at times it's difficult to let go... especially when you see the things some "human beings" do, OMG! really like no feelings or gratitude towards others at all... nevertheless, for these ppl the time will come, or maybe the time has come and they will pay for all their wrong doings.

SQ said...

Just focus to our gold and keep it all terrible things as a experience.

- i r y a n i - said...

For me, "Oh!its OK let them go!", maybe they can find another better place, but I believe “There’s no need to miss someone from your past- There’s a reason they didn’t make it to your future”...

Ismail said...

As the Old Malay sayings, "Buangkan yang keruh, ambillah yang jernih"...

sry said...

Yes correct. I agree with that. Letting go something is good because it give us chance to move forward and enjoy our life.

NM said...

sometimes we need to let go something so we can move forward. no need to wait.

Su said...

People will come and go. What is more important is the reason YOU are here. Holding on to something that is gone will only pull us down. Let go and move forward to achieve what you are here for..

esm said...

if one need to be angry, sad, depressed, etc. about something, someone - by all means do so. we're only human after all. but like everything else, always remember to put a deadline. a deadline to stop being that & finally let go. Letting go lets you sleep better anyways, eat better, see better, live better, etc. yeah.

bob asri said...

it is somewhat hard letting go...but sometimes in live, we just have to do it

sailite said...

sometime holding on too strong will make you be IN the WAY of the Blessings that are ON the WAY =)

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SS said...

Speak from my own experience, Letting Go is Not difficult at all. Just move on. The matter of relearn the whole new experience and journey. As long as have a good learning and accepting mindset. Yesterday achievements belongs to Yesterday. What we achieve today will ends at 12am. Tomorrow will have new things to achieve. Sentimental Value is nothing and this will hold things back.

tuckfai said...

yup,i'm agree people is come and go.but we can learning new things from different place,then can improve ourself in life.

Abby said...

Just let go and accept it of the changes. Life still go on...

joey said...

Instead of holding it tight and both parties get hurt, perhaps letting go give both parties to have a brand new idea. Letting go doesn't mean you are loser is just you are creating another chance for your self

crayongal said...

totally agreed with SS. wat we achieved yesterday will be no longer valid because 2day is a brand new day. moving forward and produce better result every day. :)

Shahrill said...

Agreed with SS too...
sometimes it is hard to let go due to we only looking things/person etc. as what they are...
If we look into a bigger picture, it is easier to let go...

If they with or without us...it is us who decide what our life would be...the decision is in our hand...

Anonymous said...

People will come and go...for all that commented...you will go too...dont be a slave to other's dreams and ambition...look around....you are nothing if not just an instrument to the Big Chief's dreams...grow up ATCEIANS....