December 6, 2017

Love, Trust and Letting Go.

  1. I am naturally a very people oriented person and I do love people. I really do care a lot for my peoples’ well being especially those close to me. However, over the years, I have been burnt badly, taken for granted with the trust given.  
  2. However, I have never stopped loving, trusting and creating opportunities for my people. The reason is simple. We must never take away the love & trust for the majority of the good people because of a few bad people that don’t deserve us. 
  3. The question is then, "How do I keep doing this as it hurts pretty badly every time we get burnt?"  – It’s a lesson I learnt when I lost my mother and when my health started to deteriorate badly when I used to weighed 130Kgs – Its called really LETTING GO. 
  4. If you really want to live a fulfilling life, be grateful for what you have right now, strive to be better to first and foremost really love & trust those that go above and beyond for your well being. 
  5. Never live a life of regrets as we all can live a much happier and healthier life that can really make a difference starting with our own lives. 


Janet said...

Well said, Mr Ernie.

Anonymous said...

Boss, thank you very much for your trust and opportunities given. I will work hard to achieve in work life.


Nur Shairah Azhar said...

Agreed boss. It's funny how our quality of life improves dramatically when you surround yourself with kind-hearted, loving and positive people.

Raymond Thong said...

Everyone of us should spread the love and trust to people around us as this is how can we make a difference to the world. And in order to develop this environment, we should start from the most important thing and the hardest thing to do, LETTING GO.

Looking forward to grow with ATCEN Education Group with a group of great people!

Nicoline Natasha said...

Not everyone you love, trust and give your all will do the same for you. Sometimes we just tend to give our all for the wrong people. Nevertheless, we should never stop trying for the WRONGS that people have done in our lives but continue to be our best for the many RIGHTS others has done. Mistakes are what make us a better human, lessons are what opens our minds to see things in a different perspective. The universe knows who belongs in our lives and who doesn’t. Trust and let go. Whoever is meant to be will be there.

Noorfa said...

Love and trust are not something easy for us to earn. Love is built on trust and naturally we tend to love someone that we trust. Experience made me a cold person which I had a hard time to trust people around me or working with me, but at the same time I do realised that I will be working alone if I did not put the trust on my colleagues.

MY said...

In my opinion, Its takes a great deal of maturity to really trust and love someone sincerely. Back in the days, I am a person that often find myself difficult to let go of things especially friends whom have burnt me badly; however recently after the passing of a few good friends of mine I have learnt life is too short to hold grudges and at some point I have to move on to live my life a healthier and better way. I need to work on certain bad habits and kick it.

Thinessha Balan said...

My mum used to tell me that not everyone will love you back as you do, and that's the biggest advise that I learnt in my life. I have gone through the pain of being stabbed, magically it did not make me a looser but ended up giving me an extra boost in directing my life path.
The right people who trust and belong in your life will come to you and stay. So now the game is in choosing to get bitter or better by what has been dealt to you. And I will choose the option "Better".
- Thinessha Balan -

Anonymous said...

love is like war,easy to begin very hard to stop..
we don't love because of trust but we trust because we love..


Anonymous said...

Everything happens for a reason. People change so that you can learn to let go, things go wrong so that you appreciate them when they are right and sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together.


Anonymous said...

Mr. Ernie,

Thank you for sharing and all the advise, trust and guidance you have provided.

"the best proof of love is trust" - Joyce brothers


putrilhea Abira said...

I know that, how fear and low self worth can cripple one's ability to succeed in ones life but with the caring attitude we can overcome the bad and experience the good, that is what I have experienced in the past, only than we can succeed and move on.


Anonymous said...

I do agree with your statements Mr.Ernie. I have put my trust to all the people that I knew in the earlier stage, and it hurts me when they did not value my trust. Thus, I have decided not to trust and love people so easily but to only those who deserve it.

-Mus Zambri-

Anonymous said...

I agree with you Sir.
Being grateful is appreciating whatever that is on hand. When we take things for granted, things definitely won't fall in place. Thank you for giving me a chance to work in this very conducive and positive environment.


Anonymous said...

Love cannot live where there is no trust


Mohd Razif Mohd Yusof said...

I am e grateful for what i have right now.
And i will work hard for all the person that i love with trust.
Love, Trust, Understanding and Respect.
These are things that we cannot buy in 7 eleven shop.


Thank you.

Mohamed Fadzli said...

Well said Mr. Ernie.In my own life, Trust is the glue of life. It's the most essential ingredient in effective communication. It's the foundation principle that holds all relationships. I strive to be a root in my relationship with others.I want to be there through thick and through thin.I want my relationships with people to stand the test of time.This mindset can be a blessing and a curse. This mindset carries with it the expectation that others desire for you to be a root in their lives and to be a root in yours, but the truth is not everyone does.


Liyana said...

It does hurt when someone breaks our trust. However, it is not our fault when we feel that way. It hurts because it shows that our heart is pure and that our intention is genuine. And for that reason, we must never stop loving and trusting. There's always a silver lining behind every cloud. So whenever things don't go the way we plan, we just need to let go, keep on loving and trusting those we deserve us, and focus on the bright side.

Anonymous said...

Be thankful for all things in life. Even bad things. Sometimes the worst situations turn out to be the best things that ever happened to us. The best things is Memory and the bad things is History.


Ginny Seow said...

Thank you Mr. Ernie for giving the golden opportunity to the young people like us to learn from you. I really appreciate the chance that be given to me. That's why I work very hard and do not let go the opportunity. Trust the process and we will get to where we want to get to.

Do not take anyone for granted, this is the biggest lesson that I had learnt PORTMAN College.

Andrew Yau said...

Well said, Mr.Ernie.

Never because of those people who take things for granted and yet we stop giving love, spreading the values and beliefs.

Awesome people will stay around and appreciate things!

Stay away from negativity!
Love and trust good peoples and things.
Yet, AWESOMENESS will continue on.

-Andrew Ykl-

Peggie said...

Yes. Is hard to trust a person even though is a very close friend.
Although you will get burnt or hurt, we still try hard to trust and share the love with you.

Thank you, Mr. Ernie always spent your time to trust and love us.

caven lim said...

Sometime, letting go is really pain. But we don't letting go we suffer in long term might worst than letting go. I has learnt something through your sharing. Thank you!

Michelle Xinyi said...

I'm appreciated what I have right now.
We do not stay in the past that is bad to us, we take it as a lesson and move forward and we will be more happier and healthier.

Rahul Stone said...

Giving a complete trust and sincere love to the people surrounding us will definitely break down into positive and negative attributes in return. Those who has positive mindset are the individuals meant to as part of our life.

JL Lai said...

Agreed. I am also learning how to let go, especially for BAD HABITS.
In order to love people that are important to you. We must stay healthy to be able to take care of those you LOVE & TRUST.

JL Lai.

sry haryane said...

I am not really remember the singer of this song. Sing by singer name Amanda. But the lyrics, I like the most. It give a deepth meening to easy understand and to relate with our life.

"When this trouble passes over
You and I will walk away
Knowing that our love survived
Another test of faith"

'Another test of faith'

Sry Haryane

Vennux said...

Always appreciate for the opportunities given by the company.

Thanks for sharing Mr. Ernie!

Yasota said...

Forget what hurt you but never forget what it thought you.
When you letting go, you actually creating space for something better.

love without trust is a river without water.

Anonymous said...

Don't give up because of one bad chapter in your life.
Keep going. Your story does't end here.

~ Siew Fong ~

Chloe Ang said...

We should take the opportunity in order to not regret on anything in life. Do not take things for granted as not everything meant to us. Trust the right people and right things will come around.
Thank you for sharing, Mr.Ernie.

Aziean said...

Agreed Bos!

Thank you very much Mr. Ernie because you gave me opportunity to work in ATCEN and I really appreciated for what you had done to ATCEN team even we understood that you don't have so enough time to entertain us and to guide us but you did it! I really appreciate it! I can feel your "aura" and your energy to make people around you to be better like you. I can feel that! and that's are the way you show your "love" to us and you "trust" us to run ATCEN and for sure I am not taken for granted with the trust given.

*Love cannot live where is no TRUST!

Thank you Bos!

ZT said...

think,act,behave like a champions...You are Great Leader. Thanks...

Chan Kah Hoe said...

Agree with your statement.

Always be grateful, never stop loving and trusting. We only live once, I prefer to live in a awesome life.

Ivy said...

Love people, use things.
Let go those who do not belong to us to experience what they expected in the world.

luna yap said...

I'm very grateful and thank you to Mr.Ernie because always love us, trust us and give oppoturnity even we're not capable on certain things. I will never forget what Mr.Ernie teach me and I will work hard to be better in life.

Thank you for everthing.


Always believe when we help enough people to get to where they want to get to, then we will get to where we want to get to.

LOVE, CARE and TRUST people around us.

Sammi Lai said...

Thank you Mr. Ernie for the love and kindness.
I'm grateful for what I have right now.

sry haryane said...

There is songs which I love most of the lyrics :

"When this trouble passes over
You and I will walk away
Knowing that our love survived
Another test of faith"

-Another test of faith-

Sry Haryane

Imran Musa said...

KEEP GOING STRONG and STRONGER is what i will do no matter what!!
Thank you Mr. Ernie for all your guidance and wisdom.

Kelvin Thong Jian Hao said...

Thanks for trusting me sir. Same as how I trust and love you.

It’s really pain when you letting go someone, especially the LOVE one.

Through this whole entire year, people come and go. I really learnt something....friends, no matter how closed you are, how good you are, you can’t forever with them together.

Sometimes, letting go might not a bad thing. Wish all my bros doing well in their future.

Cheryl said...

Thanks for the sharing Mr.Ernie
I have learned this big lesson recently.
Never live the our life of regrets, love and trust the people around us.
The most important is never take anyone for granted.

Gym Jian Sheng said...

Thank you Mr. Ernie for still trusting & loving us more than everyone.

Your philosophy always give me a direction/ solution in life. Always trust and love everyone for the first time. We give all 100% to everyone until the person break the trust to us.

I will never learn this lesson after I been through so many rounds of "come & go".
And now is another level for me having a class of students/ clubs/ team which need to build trust & love with all of them. Yes, not everyone will appreciate your love and some of them even will hate your kind of love. Your's philosophy always remind me this, we always give people 100%, they are the one who reduce it. I will continue what is right and what I need to do.

The haters will still hate, take good care of all the love ones who go beyond and trust on me. My job is to never let them feel disappointed that they have love & trust the wrong person, just like how we love & trust Mr. Ernie. You have never make us feel disappointed but we do...

I would like to using this as an opportunity to thanks everyone who still loving & trusting me. Appreciate those who love & trust on you.

Never take them for granted.

Unknown said...

Thank you for sharing Mr.Ernie

To love and trust to our comrades it take time, thank you for giving an opportunity to work together with the team. I Will share the love and trust among people around me and make a difference.

-Yew Ten

Carmen Lee said...

well said. Mr. Ernie

Love is built on trust. If we built trust to ourselves, definitely good things will come around.

So, trust and spread love to good people.

I really admire how Mr. Ernie makes others lives getting better.

Thank you, Mr.Ernie for giving us a golden opportunity to learn more


Soo Zen said...

Agree with your statement, Mr.Ernie.

I am grateful and appreciate what I have right now and I will always grab the opportunity that given to me. Thank you for your sharing.

-Soo Zen-

Hajar said...

In life, we can’t get what we want but what we need. Be positive. Letting go is learning process too :|

Anonymous said...

I really do cares about people well being especially those I know and close to me. I learn to forgive and accept and never stop loving people.


Anonymous said...

Love people as love ourselves. Love is easy to say but we have to show in action. But we should appreciate for who taking cares us but not taking them as granted especially our family.


Anonymous said...

I agree with you, Mr Ernie. I believe when we love people with full sincerity, people will love us with full sincerity in return. However, we must never take people for granted, else we have to let it go if the trust given is abused.

~ Richard Tan ~

Joseph Choong said...

Thank you Mr. Ernie !!

Letting go for those who hurt and take us for granted it is hard but Trust the Process !

Thanks for such and Awesome college life that taught me NEVER LIVE A LIFE OF REGRETS. I enjoyed everything in here and I want to Make A Difference by Making Lives Better !

Unknown said...

Thank you Mr. Ernie

Giving me this opportunity to join this big family and taught us alot of things, putting alot of trust on us and love us so much. Thank you for the sharing.


Hong Hoh said...

Thank you Mr. Ernie

Giving me this opportunity to join this big family and taught us alot of things, putting alot of trust on us and love us so much. Thank you for the sharing.


Raymond Jones said...

excellent article
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