December 23, 2009

Do I Trust You?


It is interesting how people abuse the trust that we have in them. In life, what goes around will come around. If we lie too often, it will definitely catch up with us sooner or later. So my advice to those that think that you can get away with it, think again as the last thing you need is to be caught red handed. That would not be a pretty sight!



Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to all.

52 comments:

joshSAN said...

Karma.

cRaYonGaL said...

Always do not assume that we are good enough. In fact we should be humble in learning every single things in life... trust is built from there, not force to give and gain...

eb said...

Trust built in years. However, it takes second to break it. Take no advantage on trust, it can make u or break u..

NM_SM said...

It will not be much effective in working with people that we don't trust. It will be waste a lots of energy.

Shah said...

it is not easy to gain others trust, but it is very easy to break it...so, appreciate the trust...

MS said...

Do you trust yourself? Do you trust your leader/ superior? Do you trust the people in your organization?

Ken67 said...

Trust is as strong as the giver that bestows it. I too operate on a high level of trust once earned. However, when betrayed... you will never regain it!

NM said...

trust is a big word and we have to do lots of things to gain trust .it can be destroy in a split second if we take a wrong step. people don't deserve trust, they have u earn it.

LILIAN said...

Clear conscience brings peace of mind; the greatest pleasure in self discipline is being trustworthy at all time.

Sya said...

Trust is very subjective. Although we can trust a person in doing jobs or any working related, it doesn't mean that we can trust a person for personal matters. It takes time to build the trust.

Dessy B said...

Trust is often over-ruled by assumption and emotion. Are we always willing to trust someone if we are going to assume them otherwise.

I believe in Karma so I have no worries over others lie and deceive.

suhaiLLa said...

once trust is broken, hard to get it back

azmeer said...

Without trust, words become the hollow sound of a wooden gong. With trust, words become life itself.
Follow your heart, but be quiet for a while first. Ask questions, then feel the answer. Learn to trust your heart.

adham said...

it's hard to trust..
don't take advantage on trust because u will never get the same truth once u break it.

Nurul said...

Trust is subjective. You can choose to trust or not. You think you trust people around you??you think people trust you?? If you think so,think again!

jefry said...

trust can be a lot of things.first thing first,do you trust yourself?if you dont,its hard for you to trust on people.do trust for yourself to trust other people.but once it broken,its hard to get it back.take it seriously if not you will live in karma.

syahir said...

before you trust somebody else you must have trust in yourself first,becouse if you dont trust yourself,it will make a problem for you and because of that there is no point that people want to put their trust on you..

Azhar Mahmad CSC said...

TRUST...it is the most important thing in our life when we want to build a relationship among us..so don't simply make a promise or words if we can't do. its will distroyed POEPLE TRUST to us...imagine all poeple in the world can't put trust on us..did we can SURVIVE???..i don't think so..

cynthia liyana said...

We're never so vulnerable than when we trust someone,but paradoxically,if we cannot trust,neither can we find love or joy - Walter Anderson

aDee said...

“The key is to get to know people and trust them to be who they are. Instead, we trust people to be who we want them to be- and when they're not, we cry.”

bob csc said...

trust is very important to us.from trust we can develop anything.but make sure the trust is being from itself believe.But make sure the trust is not broken,if this case happen,whole of your life people not believe and trust you anymore.

Suzy Dennis said...

Trust yourself first before trust other people...

mohamed najid said...

trust is something hidden and it is time and long term relationship to reveal the truth of trust to each other. Trust is more of emotional attachment

Nieda said...

humble..not easy to get people trust on you. its like how hard to built the trust & how hard to get the trust back once it break. TRUST ourself.

wawa said...

Trust your heart and yourself first. Don't assume what you see and what you hear.
Trust is subjective...
have positive and negetive.

dalila said...

You may be deceived if you trust too much, but you will live in torment if you don't trust enough.

"Love all, trust a few"~~William Shakespeare

NEIMA said...

What goes around, comes around...Merry Christmas everyone and a happy new year...

Charm6781_Yatie said...
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Charm6781_Yatie said...

Trust is very subjective. You can only work well if you trust your team. Sometimes you have to take risk and chances in trusting someone because you'll never know what will happen next. What goes around comes around.

sam said...

Good one. Happy New Year!

Sue said...

Trust is like respect.. it is earned not given. Sometimes we tend to trust the wrong person by their sweet talk and nice face. To trust someone and be trusted takes a lot of time, but to betray it takes only a split of a second..

KNJ said...

“I've learned to trust myself, to listen to truth, to not be afraid of it and to not try and hide it.”

nik said...

Trust is about reliability and doing the right thing. It's also a big factor that will determine success in your job and your career especially in a rough business climate where your value as an employee is closely watched.

sandman said...

hard thing to do. important thing to do.

-ADA- said...

TRUST come with RESPECT...
so once you brake the TRUST, you will also brake the RESPECT...
It's hard to gain both, so have to take a good care of it...
Once you get get both, life would be a lot easier... :)

Syed Al Jamalullail said...

TRUST. It either can detroy you or it can help you simple as that.

bq said...

Trust is an easy word to say for one but do they really trust another with their life. When they fully trust, forgiveness will always be there. Then think and progress.

Darren Suresh said...

Trust....not easy to gain .....very easy to feel pain to...

MY said...

Karma.. what goes around comes around. Don't think u can get away by lying. One fine day you will be caught and the trust built will vanish into thin air.

SQ said...

Trust yourself and respect people first...!

AA said...

trust should come in 2 ways-trust the leaders & trust the subordinates..but the most important question is, are we trustworthy enough to gain their trust?

fyza said...

We cannot buy "trustworthiness".If people trust us, that's a bonus. So, keep it up to build trust among people surrounding us..

Bob Asri said...

Break a trust make people frust

Yan Can Train So Can You said...
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daniel said...

Need need time to build but it break as easy as glass...

Keng said...

Trust is all about sincerity and credibility.

bob asri said...

TRUST
True to oneself
Respect others
Understanding each others
Supportive
Teamwork priority

These are the essence of trustworthy people from my point of view.

Anonymous said...

well said.

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sandman said...

Trust easy to break hard to gain

jonathanboudville said...

Awesome plan Ernie,

I've was believed in you that you were a man of action and you have been my role model to succeed.

I've met this energetic man and humble young man during my college days when ATCEN has just started,
I was rejected of a job aplication from KPMG and needed a job and so My professor approached me and introduced me to Ernie and at that time Ernie was marketing the course "Marketing Yourself".

I immediately saw the opportunity and started selling the program for him to my friends in college, became his intern and subsequently a friend.

I eventually got myself in KPMG even though I was rejected once, twice and that didn't stop me at all and thanks to his advice and encouragement.

Hey Ernie, hope to catch up with you soon and I'm not that important to make an appointment with your secretary to meet with you.

p/s There's a saying that goes, even how much you beat a dog up, he will still wag his tail and love you.

Cheers.

Dragon Shan said...

what has been said is true-- what goes around comes around!!! but my question is what happens when that person is caught red handed!!! what do u do? punish him, forgive him,help him, ETC! i think here is where our persoanlity and character is questioned because some play god when it comes to this kinda issues as thought they have never lied before! and another thing is they are various reason why the person lies! so see both sides!!